Jon Skelton

December 18, 2023

How to make Christmas less stressful

During the festive season, while it brings joy to many, it can also be a source of distress for some.

Research indicates that stress levels tend to rise during this time due to challenging family dynamics, hectic schedules, financial pressures, shorter daylight hours, and heightened feelings of loneliness.

Consider the following three key points to protect your mental health:

Prioritize Self-Care:

Just like the airline safety routine advises, attend to your own well-being first before assisting others. Self-care doesn’t have to be elaborate; it can be as simple as incorporating morning meditation, unplugging from social media in the evenings, taking regular walks with a loved one, maintaining a gratitude journal, engaging in exercise, or ensuring consistent and sufficient sleep. These small acts can significantly impact both your own well-being and that of those around you.

Build Supportive Relationships:

Pay attention to those in your surroundings. As social beings, we rely on each other for support. Be mindful of how your words and actions may affect others’ mental health, strive to offer support where possible, and encourage the cultivation of meaningful relationships. If someone is facing significant challenges, urge them to seek the help they need.

Encourage Help-Seeking:

Foster an environment where seeking help is normalized. Encourage open conversations about mental health and let others know that it’s okay to ask for assistance when needed. By reducing the stigma around seeking help, we contribute to a community that prioritizes mental well-being for all.

Conclusion

If you need support to help you achieve these self care goals, mental skills coaching and solution focused hypnotherapy can help. Please do get in touch to find out how I can help you achieve a Balanced Brain.

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Beth Redfern

2024-01-29

I highly recommend working with Jon of Balance Your Brain. I found his combination of coaching and hypnotherapy hugely helpful in dealing with some unexpected stressful events and was really impressed at just how quickly things changed with his help. As well as being great at what he does, he’s also really professional and very nice. He immediately put me at my ease and I felt very comfortable talking to him. Thank you Jon!

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2024-01-02

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2023-10-30

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2023-10-28

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2023-09-30

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2023-09-06

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2023-06-22

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2023-06-14

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2023-06-06

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Lucy Skelton

2023-05-26

Client testimonial. “Full disclosure, I’m Jon’s wife. But as anyone knows, your family can give you a much harder time than anyone else, so my husband really had his work cut out with me! Anyone who knows me, will tell you that I hate flying. Since I was a kid, I’ve hated flying. I’ve tried so many ways to cope; medication, copious amounts of alcohol, fear-of-flying courses, clinging to aircraft staff & family for dear life and shear avoidance…it’s safe to say, I’ve got the t-shirt. And Jon’s had to put up with my vast array of ‘techniques’ for the past 20 years! Jon suggested trying out some hypnotherapy on me. I’ll hold my hands up, I was sceptical; not because I didn’t he was good at what he does or that hypnotherapy doesn’t work, I just thought…it’s weird, you’re my husband…and I’ve tried everything already! This is just me, it’ll never go away. So fast forward to this photo. This is me on a plane during take off, returning from Edinburgh this weekend. I’m listening to my hypnotherapy recording (my husband is in my ear!) and I’m in happy-land. I never thought this would be possible. I’ve gone from being unable to sleep before a flight and stressing about every tiny detail of the journey (the packing, the ride to the airport, literally everything)…to gliding through security, browsing the shops and even sleeping on a plane! I couldn’t eat 24hrs before I flew (regularly vomiting in the toilets before boarding, through nerves). I can now can eat on a plane. Yesterday I even ate lunch before I got on the plane. That’s huge! My longest running coping strategy was alcohol. Although I felt like it worked, it really didn’t. I would be anxious & stressed about getting drunk enough before my flight (speeding everyone through security as quickly as possible to get to a bar). Trust me there’s nothing glamorous about drinking vodka at 8am with your kids in tow. It also ruined the beginning of my holiday; I’d often not remember the landing airport, left bags on planes and spent the first day of my holiday in bed royally hungover. My fear of flying genuinely stopped me from living my life how I wanted to. I would turn down trips or change the destination to avoid a long flight or a flight at all. I now can’t wait for my next holiday. It’s safe to say, it’s changed my life and my family’s. If you feel how I used to about flying (or any fear for that matter), give Jon a try…it could change everything for you.”